If the situation won't change for you, then change yourself... That's always the case...

If you try too hard to make things happen, it wouldn't happen and ultimately, it may even cause problems to people around you... Because you are too into making the situation to turn into the way you want... Then you will take people for granted... And expect people to understand what the hell you are doing and in the end everyone around have to change themselves for you.. And everyone begins to change (better for some, worst for some) and you wonder why... by then it will be too late... But hack you care... Becos you don't care...